Plated Dinner vs. Heavy Apps?

So my current dilemma is debating between a formal plated dinner or a more relaxed cocktail style reception with heavy appetizers served throughout the event. It really isn't a budget issue it is just that I hate the whole seated dinner thing. It seems you spend almost half the reception waiting for the food and then eating it uncomfortably with strangers. Plus, half the time the food isn't even that great! I would much rather give my guests more food options, the freedom of eating when they want to eat and sitting where they want to sit. But I don't want to run the risk of them feeling hungry. I have done extensive research and this is quite the debate.
What do you think?